Update

Long time no see...

So it has been quite awhile since I have written in my blog, but it has also been about a month since I have cammed. Life has been quite hectic. I like to keep things honest in my blog and with my followers so I will update you a bit with what has been going on. 

So about a month ago I came down with a really bad cold and it last for about 2 weeks, well actually I still have some symptoms but it seems that the worst is gone. So pretty much I was going to be back on cam the Friday after my roommate moved because we have discussed that he was moving on October 1st, and unfortunately I ended up rushing out the door one day and fractured my ankle. The technical term is an ankle avulsion which pretty much means my tendon pulled a piece of my bone off, as gross as that sounds it is actually almost similar to a sprain but sometimes it requires a cast. So I pretty much fractured my ankle and then my roommate moved out so I had absolutely no help and things became complicated and I wasn't even able to cam just sitting down because I had other life issues to attend to and unfortunately it was a bit more of a struggle than I fully intended. I had insurance issues and life, so pretty much I said, "Fuck the crutches and the splint" and I called it a day. The pain is starting to subside and I am hoping to get back to camming soon if life will allow it. I can't really even explain how thankful I am for my followers being so patient and wishing me well while I am having a hard time. I actually owe someone a password show who already paid about 2 weeks ago along with owing someone a custom video who paid around the same time but got some of his stuff..but as long as I kept everyone updated they seemed to understand which is wonderful and I sincerely appreciate it. 

That is the thing about camming, you have these assholes who think you are a sex robot but at the same time you have people who are genuine and understand life happens. I think that is why I love this "job" so much. I can have my own schedule and know I can come back to those who are loyal when I am able to if something happens. Some girls who are just beginning wonder if its really hard because people are so demanding, and can honestly be really rude. I think that is one of the easiest parts honestly. I love keeping in contact with followers on social media and messenger programs, and getting online after awhile and having people tell me they missed me and are actually interested in what happened and why I was gone for that period of time. Aside from getting my lazy butt off the couch to do my make up and set up the cam environment is honestly disappointing my follows. Sometimes life does happen and people do pay for certain things and I can provide them right away..I tend to try to do whatever I can to make it up to them, sometimes even offering additional content. My "followers" aren't only my followers, I also feel like they are my friends and over the past 2 years I have gotten to know them quite well and it's nice. I have met so many wonderful people who have genuine souls. The thing about Chaturbate is that it has the sex portion which is always great (because who doesn't love sex and masturbating) but it also has a personal aspect to it. I think someone on the documentary Cam Girlz described it best...we are therapists who are sexual..but what I think a lot of people don't know is that to some of us girls it is like therapy as well. I mean sure we get out rocks off and make a living, but we also get to talk to someone who specifically comes on to Chaturbate to see us and not only have fun with us but just to even chat with us. It's nice, too many people take themselves for granted and are insecure, but when you are on a site like Chaturbate you can realize people find you incredibly attractive physically or some maybe even mentally. 

So that is pretty much the just of what is going on lately and a bit of a rant on how sincere people on Chaturbate can be. I will try to keep this updated more frequently, I just haven't had much time lately. I should be back to camming within the next few days. Keep an eye out for me. If you have yet to follow me...look on my blog there is a link somewhere ;) 

For the cam girls when it is"that time of the month" TMI women ONLY post!

So, I haven't posted in a very long time. Life has certainly been keeping me on my toes. As most of us cam girls know, we are not robots, and all have quite a bit to deal with in life. I wish I could update you with all of the gooey nonsense that has been occurring in my life; but truthfully it's not that entertaining. I am hoping to get back to a 5 day a week schedule though, with a minimum of 3 hours of being live. I was thinking Wednesday through Sundays from around 10pm-1am eastern time. Anyways, lets get to the topic at hand.

I haven't posted in forever, and I seriously have people asking me questions frequently. I don't mind answering them individually, but I feel like it might be a bit easier to cover things in a blog post. I was supposed to write about "apps and bots" next but to be honest- that post is going to take a whole lot of time. Today I decided that the topic of choice would be "Camming while on your menstrual cycle."

Camming while on your menstrual cycle

(this post is extremely TMI so if you are a guy, please stop reading while you're ahead)

Okay so I'm sure this is to no one's surprise: but women have menstrual cycles, sometimes known as a period, Aunt Flo, Shark Week..etc. This may come to be an issue while working within the adult industry, since inserting objects into your vagina is quite the daily occurrence. Sometimes taking 3-5 days off of work can be quite the inconvenience. I have heard about girls tucking their strings, and just doing play about the waist or just clit play. To be honest, that is kind of shitty and for some women it doesn't make them nearly enough, or even reach them to their goal. So what I discovered was something called, Instead: Softcup . It is a plastic cup that you can insert into your vagina while menstruating and still have sex with it in (or masturbate). I would recommend you click the link above and read more about it from their site, because the more you know, the better. You can buy them at many drug stores, including CVS. I believe they have a store locator or something on their site that can help you out with that. They do cost about $14 a box, but as a cam model, it is extremely worth it. I do recommend that you use them for a couple of months and experiment with them while you are not on camera, that way there are no accidents or leaks. TMI, but I also may take a couple days off of cam when I am just beginning a cycle to prevent the cup from filling to fast and leaking. They can be a bit challenging to get used to, especially if you have short fingers and are trying to remove them..but that is why we have kegel muscles ladies! There honestly isn't much else I can say about this product, but I seriously swear by it, and recommend it completely. 

If you have any questions, please feel free to email me. I check my email daily, and would be more than happy to respond. SerenityBBWCam@gmail.com 

If you have any more questions, I recommend a site that is very helpful to cam girls everywhere, it is a forum where you can ask questions and get tips. Wecamgirls.com 

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Update!

I haven't posted much in a long time. I figured I would give everyone an update. 

So as everyone knows, I am a full-time student and full-time Mom, so life keeps me pretty busy. I will do my best to keep this blog updated as frequently as possible. If you EVER have any questions regarding camming or just about me in general, please feel free to shoot me an email at SerenityBBWCam@gmail.com.

School has been pretty demanding this semester, I feel like I never get a free second. I do try to keep up with everything though to the best of my abilities.

I have a Birthday show coming up soon on Chaturbate. I am pretty much super excited. I also had one last year but it was rough! I only made 700 tokens, but I did get a few special gifts, especially considering I had only been camming about 3 months at that point! This time I have been camming a little over a year and many of my love friends and followers have pitched in and have gotten me some quite wonderful gifts: some I don't even know about! I tend to keep my wishlist a surprise when it comes to events like this. It takes the fun out of it otherwise right? I did have a flaw in my plan though..one day when I was at school...the babysitter fell asleep with my daughter and she opened all of the presents in my room! *GASP* Believe it or not, I was quite distraught. I feel like I owe something to my followers and friends for being so wonderful to me, and this was my one promise to them; "Do not open the presents until I am live on cam on my Birthday." Apparently some got open though due to letting my minion sleep in the bed with me that night and not locking the door. It sucks but, you know what? Shit happens. Cam girls are humans.

Speaking of cam girls being human. I just recently discovered that there is a cam girl documentary coming out! Wow! Apparently I am way behind in the cam times. I do know that you can preorder ir and see the trailer here. No I am not paid to advertise this. I honestly and sincerely think that the trailer represents the true honesty of every cam girl! From the preppy, to the goth, and from the big to the small. Make sure you check it out! I promise it will be worth it. (I haven't even seen it yet, but I preordered too because it has several of my favorite Chaturbate models in it; including Heresheis and BlazeFyre.)

I hope to get on more frequently when the spring and summer come and hopefully blog more too, but please feel free to email me. No matter what. I check my email several times a day, and am always open to respond to mostly anything, even assholes. I think within the next blog I will name all of the models I follow so you can see how they do their thing.

xoxo

Links to adult related things

Cam Sites:

Chaturbate

Myfreecams

CamFuze

Streammate

AllBBWCams



Video/Content Selling:

ManyVids

ExtraLunchMoney

AdultVideos

AmateurCommunity (This one is pretty cool, but I think it is pretty new) You get paid for content sales and even sending msgs



Sex Toys:

Sextoyfun (use coupon code SERENITY for 10% off (no min purchase)


I will try to keep this list updated as time goes on. I tend to find out about a new site every few days. If there is one you know about that isn't listed- please share! :)

Life happens

I haven't cammed in a while, and I have not posted in awhile either. Let's try to write an update. 

So as most of you know, I am a full-time nursing student and that tends to take up a lot of my time. Today was actually my last day of this semester- thank god! I have been studying and procrastinating, and that has taken a lot of my time. I also had an unfortunate event happen, I found out my dad was in the hospital about a week and a half ago. He went there due to the diagnosis of psychosis, he started out being on a ventilator and sedated. The reason why is because not only was he not in his right mind but he had pneumonia, and a staff infection in his lungs. He has been on and off the ventilator, and now is finally off again- hopefully for good. He is also back to the right state of mind, but the Drs still have not been able to figure out what caused the temporary psychosis. So, lets just say, I have been in the hospital a lot and not in the right mind to cam. I plan of returning to cam tonight.  

Something I really want to mention is, how difficult it is to make money during December- Wow! If you are a follower reading this, please pay attention. Every little bit of tips help during this month. I understand everyone is low on cash and has to buy presents for their loved ones, but so do cam models. We are people too. The thing is, during the holidays...cam models struggle to just pay bills let alone have gift money for their loved ones. Please understand the frustration that some models may have during this time. We appreciate everything, especially during this time. If you can spare a giftcard, a gift off of a wishlist or even $10 to buy 100 tokens..it all adds up and will make us very thankful in the end. I myself usually make on average $300-$400 per payout for about 24-30 hours for 2 weeks. Last payout I only made $150, and it killed me. I had to skip bills just to open a lay-away. Why am I telling you this? I am a real ass person, and I want you to know..cam models are people too. Although some people think we are just sex robots. Lol

I know I did a poll of which topic to do next, and it came out to be information on bots and apps, and I will get to it soon, I promise. 

Please remember if you have any questions please do not hesitate to email me at SerenityBBWCam@gmail.com

A lot of shit on my mind...

Okay, so this post deserves a special color. Purple it is. 

First thing first, I have been incredibly busy, and haven't been to get shit done unless I am paying $2000 for it per semester. xD Or..they are paying me that..haha. So let's try to do a bit of brief updating. 

I was recently on Chaturbate's Model Spotlight. That was exciting. I gained quite a bit more followers and met some awesome new people. The only thing that would have made it better, is if I didn't do the interview 3 months ago. o.o It made things a bit outdated, and as most know, things are constantly changing in the cam world. 

Serenity's Spotlight

Next, Holy fucking Holidays. We have Halloween, Thankgiving, Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, and whatever else people celebrate, and it's stresses me out. It is like a week before Halloween and I don't even have a costume yet! -.- Final exams come in December, and my Cam-versary is at the end of December. Holy shit balls. My birthday is also 4 months away..so I have to plan something uber exciting for that..still no clue. Anyways..that is the gist of that situation. 

I am considering doing a raffle within the next month or so, any suggestions? Please send me an email and let me know. 

Also if any website designers decide to read my blog, let me know if this next topic interests you. I have been looking everywhere for a model to cam with me but I am not having much luck in my state. I was thinking we could make a website where each model could be verified via camsite and let's say twitter? Then we could have the ability to find people in our area that are looking for cam partners. Maybe the models can make their profiles specific to a certain gender, age range, and distance willing to travel..things like that..if you could make it work, I would love to join in and help. :)